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I haven’t updated this blog very much lately because I’ve been busy with the other blog for Susan’s case, plus all the regular efforts to find her.  Also, I’ve found myself in a sad and strange situation. 

When Susan disappeared nearly 4 months ago, mine and my family’s life got put on hold.  Every thought, word, effort, and breath was all about Susan.  I spent all my time doing everything I could to keep her in the news, help the police in any way possible, and do all I could to find my friend.

My family suffered, of course, both my husband and kids and my extended family.  I kept them fed and clothed but everything else was a bare minimum. 

On Tuesday it will be exactly 4 months since Susan disappeared.  Nothing has changed for me—I still think of her with every thought and am still doing all I can to find her.  But I’ve had to return to “normal” life in some ways, for the sake of my children, who need me, and my husband and other family members. 

I’ve hesitated to post anything on my blog since Susan disappeared that wasn’t about her.  But the whole reason I started a blog was so our relatives and friends who live farther away and can’t be with our family as often as they’d like to could be a little more in touch with our lives.  So I guess now the blog will need to also struggle to find a balance between Susan-postings and bits from our lives, much as I am now struggling to do myself every day. 

It’s very hard to cook a nice dinner for my family and fold laundry when my mind and heart are so grief-stricken that my friend is still gone.  As much as I love my kids, it’s hard to give them undivided attention for hours when all I can think about is Susan.

But the last thing she would want is for my family or anyone else to suffer on her behalf, so we do what we can to continue our efforts to find her and still take care of our responsibilities and priorities. 

I update the Service for Susan blog regularly on the latest news and activities surrounding Susan’s case and disappearance, so check there often if you’re not on the Friends and Family of Susan Powell Facebook group

I hope everyone has enjoyed a sweet and peaceful Easter, surrounded by loved ones, and remembering the Savior…He who makes it possible for all of us to live again.

Art by the ultra-talented Simon Dewey; picture from Bev’s Country Cottage, a great charity website full of knitting and crochet patterns and other cool stuff.

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PRESS RELEASE
Saturday, January 30, 2010
2:00 PST
Contact: Shelby Gifford, Cox Family Spokeswoman
253.255.1624
Shelby@theshelbynetwork.com

SUBJECT: Friends & Family of Susan Powell Facebook Page Mysteriously Disappears

The Cox Family and administrators of the Friends & Family of Susan Powell Facebook page are asking for the social networking site’s help in restoring a page dedicated to the disappearance of missing Utah mom, Susan Powell, who was last seen December 6, 2009 in West Valley City, Utah.

The page contained information about Susan and her disappearance, and was a place where members of Facebook could come for up-to-date information about the case. “An entire database of people willing to help with searches and provide other services was deleted from Facebook as of approximately 2 PM Friday, January 29, 2010” said Shelby Gifford, family spokesperson for the Cox family and an administrator on the popular Facebook page. “Additionally, our page had over 45,000 members, all of whom can no longer see the page and who are not able to get or distribute information about Susan’s disappearance.”

The Facebook page has also been plagued by a “troll” who continues to visit the page under assumed identities, even pretending to be Susan Powell herself at one point. The Cox family and the Friends & Family of Susan Powell page administrators have made repeated complaints to Facebook and have not received a response. Susan’s father, Charles Cox, even applied online for a job with Facebook to try to get the company’s attention, but received no response. Other Facebook sites that strive to provide information about Susan have experienced similar problems.

“Obviously, our reason for using Facebook is that it can reach such a large audience quickly. This was proven in our successful Find Susan Media Blitz conducted earlier this month, during which the site grew to over 43,000 members in just a matter of days,” said James Hofheins, Social Media Coordinator for the Friends & Family of Susan Powell group. “We would like to talk with a representative from Facebook so we can remedy this problem once and for all. Their lack of response is causing great frustration among Susan’s friends, family and supporters.”

Various law enforcement agencies have been contacted with regard to threats made to the individual administrators of the Friends & Family of Susan Powell Facebook site. “We will continue to pursue those avenues as needed,” said Gifford.

NOTE: The Cox family had previously planned (but not announced) a press conference for Monday, February 1, 2010 in Puyallup, WA. THIS HAS BEEN POSTPONED. When the conference is rescheduled, members of the media will be notified via an emailed press release. To add your contact information to the Cox Family media database, please send an email to Shelby@theshelbynetwork.com.

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Many people in this world spend their time doing good, uplifting, wholesome things.  A few others choose to spend theirs destroying and tearing down.

Our Facebook group, Friends and Family of Susan Powell, disappeared this afternoon.  An internet troll/fake profile/hacker has claimed responsibility, saying that he has friends “inside” Facebook that shut the group down at his request and will shut down any further groups we ever try to start.

We won’t stand for this and are doing all we can to get Facebook to figure out what’s going on and fix their security issues.  44,000 + people who love and support Susan and her family now feel like they are homeless.  This group was their lifeline, their source of news, their way to show united strength and to focus on the effort to find Susan. 

Obviously, someone doesn’t want us to find Susan.  But it doesn’t matter what one person tries to do—NOTHING is going to stop us from doing everything in our power and fighting till the end to find Susan and return her to her family, her friends, and most of all, to her little boys who need her. 

Please take the time to visit this new blog dedicated to the upcoming Week of Service in Susan’s honor: http://heartsknitforsusan.wordpress.com/  Also, follow @findsusan if you’re on Twitter for constant updates on the Facebook situation and other efforts in the search for Susan.  And keep an eye on the Find Susan blog, as well. 

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Two weeks and counting.  Does it get any easier?  No.

I’m not crying as often as I was…but that’s because I have hope.  Hope that, yes, she is still alive, being held somewhere against her will.

The media coverage has increased and we’re even busier than we were before, but this is a very good thing because it means Susan’s face and story are reaching even more people.

In fact, I have been so touched, uplifted, and strengthened over the past few days as messages of support and love have poured in from all over the United States and across the world.

I’d like to share some of these messages here…these all come from the Facebook group, Friends and Family of Susan Powell.

From Carrie:

Susan and the Boys are in my prayers!! The whole state of Iowa is hoping Susan is home in time for Christmas!!! Stay strong in faith and may God bless you and your family!!!

From Frances:

Our prayers are with you, family and friends of Susan Powell…we may not know you but our faith is the same and we are thinking of you as we follow the story from TX

From Emily:

Susan….tonight is surely not a "silent night", voices all over the world are singing and praying for you. We miss you.

From Dax Guzman:

Image of friends and loved ones supporting Susan Powell’s safe return. Even in the coldest and darkest nights we will hold on to hope and pray for her return. We love you Susan.

 

From Troy:

Dearest Friend and Family of Susan Powell, the cold and the ice here in Renville Galway Ireland was to dangerous for people to gather as I had planned, the ice started at 6pm and I could not even get over to my love of my life Celine’s house at 2am, so we all did our candle vigil for Susan on our own listening to Dean Martin singing Silent Night, Josef Mohr would have been so proud of all this outpouring from across the globe for Susan. I know that Susan has heard us. With great respect and love to you and Susan’s family.

From Lori:

Our prayers to find Susan and bring her home. Heartfelt hugs to Susan’s family and friends from Branson, Missouri. May they find comfort during this difficult time.

From Regina:

From the mountains of Western North Carolina, I add my prayers to yours. The trials of this family break my heart. May God bless all and return Susan to her loved ones.

From Spencer:

To the family of Susan powell… i pray that your Loved one susan will be in your hearts while going thru this hard time… i no that if you stay close to god through this hard time you will feel peace… i also pray for you … thos little boys NEED there MOMMY please pray for her return Everyone!!!!

Spencer …. (Eastern Europe, Bulgaria)

This is just a small sampling of the messages we’ve received. 

Here is the statement read last night at the worldwide prayer/candlelight vigil in West Valley City, Utah:

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Over the past few days, Susan’s family and friends have been sustained, comforted and uplifted by love and support pouring in from China, Japan, Israel, New Zealand, Germany, France, Africa, Australia, Bulgaria, and all across the United States.
We are gathered tonight to join in a united prayer heard around the world. At this same moment across the globe, people are praying for Susan and her family in:
Sydney, Australia
Galway, Ireland
The United Kingdom
New Mexico
North Carolina
Maryland
Ohio
Washington
Michigan
Alabama
Georgia
Iowa
South Carolina
California
Wisconsin
Various parts of Utah
We join Susan’s family and friends in Puyallup, Washington to light a candle of hope for Susan. We have not given up and we will not give up until we bring Susan home.

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Please keep those flames burning in your hearts and send Susan’s face and story throughout the world!

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Since my closest friend Susan Powell went missing one week ago, my life has changed forever.

I have felt heartache of such a deep kind that I hope anyone reading this never has to experience.

I have cried, and cried, and cried some more, pulled myself together, fallen apart again.

I have prayed hundreds of prayers.

I have become part of a very special community…both online (through the Friends and Family of Susan Powell Facebook group) and in real life, as complete strangers from different parts of Susan’s world have met each other and hugged and cried, both together and reaching through virtual space.

But most of all, my life has been ruled this past week by the media. 

The media: so strong, so powerful.  So often wrong, so sensationalized, so quick to spread rumors as truth.  But also, a powerful tool we can and must use to get Susan back. 

It began Wednesday morning, day 3 since Susan went missing.  I was doing school with my children and fresh out of the shower (damp hair, ratty old clothes) when there was a knock at my door.  You could’ve knocked me over with a feather when I answered it and found Marcos Ortiz and ABC-4 at my door, wanting to come in for an interview.

Why?  I guess because I’m Susan’s best friend.  Because I was one of the last ones to see her.  And because I started the Facebook group the night before, simply as a way for us as a church congregation/family to keep in touch and share updates, news, and comfort. 

The ABC-4 crew graciously gave me 5 minutes to look a little more presentable before they filmed my first-ever TV interview.  Scary?  Terrifying.  I’m not comfortable with my physical appearance on any day, let alone on TV.  But I did it because I want to help Susan.  The more people that see, the greater the chance that someone knows where she is. 

After they left I thought “that was very surreal” and prepared to return to my day.  Soon after, there was another knock at the door—this time Chris Jones with KUTV-2.  A couple of hours later, I received a phone call from KSL and Sandra Yi and crew were soon at my house. 

Thursday morning I believed that since I’d done three of the four TV networks in town, that’d be the end of it. 

The opposite was true.  Another knock at my door—this time the Deseret News.  Later in the day, Chris Jones was back.  And soon after that, the 4th TV station in town—Arrika Von and Fox 13. 

Meanwhile, the Facebook group had exploded with hundreds of new members in less than 2 days.  I received a huge and unexpected support/help in Damon Talbot, president of the non-profit Destiny Search Project.  He has been an invaluable adviser to help us organize and focus our efforts on better ways to help with the search for Susan.  Damon suggested we hold a candlelight vigil that night…to gather people in love for Susan, and to provide more publicity.

We did, and it was very successful.  All the TV stations and newspapers in town had reporters there, and there was a wonderful feeling of shared love.  I spoke with more reporters as well as the Salt Lake Tribune.

Friday morning things got even crazier when the national news shows started contacting me.  I heard from CBS, CNN, FOX national, and others.  I was scheduled for a live interview with the CBS Early Show in New York City on Saturday morning, with a car coming to pick me up at 4:30am, along with Debbie, Susan’s excellent childcare provider. 

You haven’t experienced strange/surreal until you’re sitting in a chair, covered in layers of makeup, with an earpiece in your ear, staring into a camera and talking to someone thousands of miles away. 

The rest of the day on Saturday was very busy.  I had two events to attend with my children (they performed with their dance studio and we went to the Mountain West Ballet’s Nutcracker that night) and managed to get a two-hour nap in (after only getting one hour of sleep the night before…I was afraid I’d oversleep and miss the car).  I talked to many more reporters on the phone, attended a lovely special fast/prayer meeting for Susan at our church, did a phone interview with AP Radio out of Washington DC as I was driving my kids to the Nutcracker.  CBS called back and wanted to do another taped interview at some point on Sunday.

This morning—Sunday—my phone rang the second I turned it on.  This time it was Jason from Good Morning America.  They wanted to do an interview, too.  And a few minutes later, it was FOX…also wanted an interview. 

Things got a bit crazy during the day as the networks juggled what they wanted to do, but I ended up doing two taped interviews with CBS and GMA crews in my home this afternoon/evening.

Do I love being on camera?  NO.  No, no, and again, no.  It is embarrassing.  It’s hard.  It is most un-flattering.  It’s not fun.  And crying on camera never looks good—unless you’re an actress.  But I keep telling myself: the more interviews I do—the more people I talk to—the more places this story goes—the greater the chances of someone finding a tip or a lead or a clue that will lead the police to Susan!!

I want to publicly thank my friend Emily for being a true friend.  She came over today: spent her day cleaning my house, cooking us a delicious dinner, and doing laundry.  She has never even met Susan in person.  And my friends from church have been praying for me all week, offering any kind of help I can imagine, and giving me soft shoulders to cry on. 

Please, everyone, let’s keep spreading this story.  Keep Susan in the public eye, mind, and heart.  Share her posters and videos via Facebook, e-mail, Twitter, blogs.  Print off fliers and take them around.  Join our Facebook group and become part of our community.  Help us bring Susan home!!

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The past two days have been some of the hardest of my life.  My dear friend, neighbor, and fellow ward (church) member, Susan Powell, is missing.

I first learned of this Monday morning when her sister-in-law called, desperate to know when I’d last seen or talked to Susan (which was Sunday at noon, walking home from church together). 

You can read some details in these news stories:

Deseret News

Salt Lake Tribune

ABC-4 TV

KUTV-2

Susan is a wonderful person and loved by everyone who knows her.  She is funny, talented (does hair AND is a stockbroker), and a wonderful friend.  She loves to crochet, garden, be a “girly girl,” and play with her two little boys.

Our hearts are breaking with worry and fear.  Please, anyone who reads this, consider posting the information on your blog—Twitter—Facebook—or anywhere you can.  I can’t reach everyone but maybe someone will see something you posted online and remember seeing her. 

There is also a Facebook group called “Friends and Family of Susan Powell” that Facebook people can join to share news and information.

Here are pictures of Susan:

Pictures from Susan’s Facebook page…Amber Hardman Photography and Sweden Studios Photography

Thank you for your help. And above all, keep her in your prayers…she needs every single one.

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